In the fallen world, to love is somewhat dangerous. In the Garden of Eden, the only woman was Eve. But here in this fallen world, there are many women. More than enough. Then, all those women are trying hard to seduce men. So, it is hard for men to keep their own position, isn't it? This is the same with women. Because of that reason, after marriage, men should not meet other women. Do you understand? How do you treat other women? Treat them like barking dogs. Your wife is human, but treat other women as if they are the neighbors' barking dogs. Again, how should you treat other women? (Like dogs...) That's okay, because if only you think that way, without speaking, then who cares? You just shouldn't tell them, then there is no problem. Also women, you must think of other men as what? As dogs.

So, after marriage, you should go along stuck to each other. The Fall came along because of mismanagement. The woman did not have good management over the man and the man did not have good management over the woman because he was not able to educate her about the fact that he was the only husband for her. Beyond education, the fact is, they did not love each other enough.

Question: If a person is matured in personality to the level of receiving the Blessing, then shouldn't he be able to do so by his own self -discipline?

\Answer: the level of maturity, at this time, is not perfect maturity. It is, in fact, conditional perfection. In the process of restoration, we can achieve only conditional maturity. Do you understand? So, even though they are standing in the position of parents, they do not know God's realm of heart. They haven't yet experienced that a wife is worth more than the universe, and that a husband is also worth more than the whole universe, and that as they love each other, they create great power to hold heaven and earth together.

For this reason, all the families Blessed so far remain in conditional maturity until we can all go past this fallen realm. We should know this. Do you understand what this means? We are not in the realm of the completed Kingdom of Heaven in heaven and on earth. We are in the realm of conditional maturity. Since you are in the realm of conditional maturity, when you pass away to spirit world, you should go through another checkpoint. Later, you are perfected and will receive your passport to the Kingdom of Heaven. (143-335)