It is important to be equipped with the love of God. If possible God wants to share His love with us by Abel subjugating Cain naturally and having him obey absolutely.

Centering upon the will of God, I have had a hard time. So in your case you should think that I was suffering and that my suffering is for your suffering; and if you offer yourself, do your best sincerely for the sake of the Will, shedding your tears you will be able to enter the realm of God's love. I mean that.

You should be able to feel the same pain, the same sorrow when I speak of my suffering. You should also shed tears or you should get angry just as I do. You should be able to feel the same as I. It is my suffering that serves as material which makes you feel the same way I do.

I suffered a lot and had a lot of pain in the past so that you could realistically feel together with me nowadays. Therefore, if you become able to feel my pain as your own pain, you can be appointed as a Cain in front of me. That would prove that you and I have become one in love. That is where you receive God's love. To what extent does this have to last? It has to last forever. God has been promoting the history of restoration through such a process. For that reason there is a need for the period in which you grow. (34-101)