You can say the same thing about the children. Maybe you don't understand since you have never fought for your children, even giving your life, but God has lived thousands of years and sacrificed many people to find one family, and your sons and daughters were found like a candle of hope through this one family. If you recognize that sons and daughters bring each family a unification point of divine purpose called the four-position foundation, you must appreciate your sons and daughters more, the more time passes. If the parents have that kind of heart, the children will never starve to death. (33-177)

Isn't it wonderful to sleep and wake in the morning and work together your whole life with your dear spouse? If you live with that kind of love, then even if you have to live alone that is no problem. The universe never invades such a love. It is in the position to gain common assistance from the universe, so heaven and earth always protect it. So we must conclude that a person centered upon this love is not a person of misery at all in this world and even in the life after.

Now then, we must give these two people in the universe who became one in love like this a prize, but what is that prize? It is the children. Do you understand? What is the biggest award in the whole universe? It is not becoming President. It is not getting a Ph.D. or winning the Nobel prize. It is sons and daughters who can be born between a loving husband and wife. You should understand that there is no grater prize. That is why sons and daughter are so precious. You want to love them more than yourself, more than your husband. They have such power. (129-56)