A leader is a pitiful person. He is a miserable person. Even if he is living happily with his wife in their bedroom, when someone knocks on his door he has to allow the guest to come into the bedroom. Eventually, what it means is that he has to love members more than his own wife. If your wife has something nice, then you have to sell even that in order to give everything to the members, and if his children have something nice then he has to use all that for the sake of the members. This has to become the way of life for the leader. If a leader lives such life, then what would happen to the family? Such life will most likely make his family miserable. If such a mission is inherited and continued for the rest of the life, then success will be attained but if it is stopped after several years, then all will be in vain. Therefore, wherever the leader goes, it is his responsibility to bear the cross. When you eat, as you pick up the spoon you should not be saying, "Oh I am so hungry." You have to think about the members. You have to think about members even as you wear clothes, and no matter what you do you have to think like that. The time that you take a rest is also being on the cross. You must repent for the times that you took naps because you were exhausted and cried out, "I feel good" as you get up. When you live such a lifestyle, the spirit world and God will completely work with you. You will come to realize this is true through your experiences in your life of faith. In regards to your body, you have to reflect on how much your hand has lived for the sake of the members, how much your eyes have lived for the sake of the members and yearned to see them in the public position, and how much you have wished to listen to their voice and how much you have comforted them. All must be done not for your own sake but for the public purpose. "How to become a leader," is the topic for today's sermon, yet can you bear that kind of cross in order to become leaders? [Yes] In order to do so, this kind of training is necessary. Before becoming a leader of a thousand people you must pass the training to be the leader of one? You must ask yourself. We must undertake the training based on the question of whether or not each one of us can become a leader who can be completely trusted as a friend or a teacher. In order for you to become a leader, in order to be in charge of a church, you need to have the training to take care of one representative person. In order to become a leader over one person, one must take responsibility for both good and bad aspects of that person. You should not be thinking that you will be responsible only for the good things and not for the bad things. You have to first be responsible for the bad things and say, "You be responsible for the good things." What separates you from that person is not something good but something bad. The conclusion that we arrive at is that unless one becomes a leader who can be responsible for the bad things, you will surely be separated from that person. In order to digest bad things and supplement with good things, an individual cross must be borne. When you become a leader in the future, you must think about this. You must ask yourself whether or not you can become a perfect leader for an individual. You must be able to answer "Yes." Next, when you ask yourself if you can become a leader of a family, as long as you can answer "Yes," you will have no problem in serving as a leader of a church. When you make the determination to take responsibility for the sake of one family and lead them to the church, you must bear the cross of that family. If you are willing to bear the cross that none of the members of the family could bear and take care of the problem, then until that cross is brought to some resolution that family will be in the position to obediently receive your guidance. This is the type of training that is needed. Next, if this is done centering on one church, then you will have no problem serving as both the head of a household and the church leader. You can take care of a church. Looking at the issue centering on the church, you are to become a someone who will say, "I will be responsible for all the difficulties of the church. I will take your responsibility in your place." When the church is experiencing difficulty, if you take responsibility for all the things that the members are responsible for, then until you complete the responsibility of the cross that you bear the members must receive your guidance. This is also true for the leader of a nation. To us who have set ourselves on the restoration of the world for the coming days, the answer to the question whether or not we can manage this responsibility is quite simple. If in making plans for America now, if I live for the sake of America and have faith in it more than God does, then what do you think will happen? We can conclude that God cannot judge this nation. In order to bring judgment, He must first give me something greater first. In other words, as long as I love, believe in, and live for the sake of America, God can judge it only after bringing something greater; otherwise, he cannot take it away or strike it. Do you understand what I am saying? [Yes] (72-313)
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