A wise leader should embrace twice after hitting once. Moreover, you have to let people feel, "He did it for our sake;" otherwise, they will scorn you and oppose you, and in the end, Satan will invade. If you do not take care of the situation well, then the disciple will become your enemy. If he becomes an enemy and tries to take revenge, and if he cannot go to the side of God, then the leader must take responsibility for all the behaviors of that person centering on that mind-set. (54-207) If there is something bad, you are not supposed to get rid of it right away. Even if there is something bad, centering on that you have to find some condition that will improve it, and even if the good aspects are fewer than the bad aspects, you have to have the flexibility and capacity to center on reserving the smaller portion and getting rid of the bad portion. If a person is cut off on account of his mistake made a year ago, then he may die completely, but if he is reserved without being cut off for one, two, or three years while the bad aspects of him are being resolved based on the belief that they are mere extras, then after one, two, or three years there may be a way for him to live. (72-313)
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