The Blessed wives and I have to unite and become one. This is supposed to happen, but if the husband writes a letter asking his wife to come back, this will cause big trouble. Husbands have no right to say to their wives, "You are my wife, so you have to come back." If you do so, you will be violating heavenly law. Isn't this the Principle? The individual cannot interfere at this time. There is no room for discussion or compromise on this point.

This time period under my direction means that you have to completely unite with God's Will. Then, what do you husbands have to do? You have to absolutely obey your wives. Being in the position of the archangel who caused Eve to fall, you have to be willing to die if you are asked to. This is the time to go through this position, so husbands should absolutely not write a letter saying, "I want to see you, etc.," because this will diminish your wife's devotion. You have to serve and help your wife internally and externally. (40:211)

How should the husband think? You have to feel honored that your wife was mobilized to be approved on the worldwide level. If your wife does not accomplish and get approved, then the husband cannot get approved either. When the wife does not get approved, she cannot relate to her husband and children even though she has a husband and child. For this reason, when the wife is out on her mission, the husband should pray day and night for his wife. You have to be able to say, "Your pain is my pain, and your sorrow is my sorrow." (36:240)

For Blessed families to serve God, you should not serve according to your old habits and lifestyle. As a Blessed family, you have to have the heart that your family is representative of the high priest, who made a daily offering for the nation and people. Furthermore, Blessed wives are on the front line. Their front line is not in Korea. Spiritually, they are on the front line to protect against satanic invasion. You understand this point, so whenever you think about your wife on the front line, you have to fulfill your mission as high priest leading your children. This is the kind of heart you should have. This means that when a cold day comes and difficulties come, you should not take these challenges as your own problem but confront them as a representative of the nation. In order to make a heartistic connection to God as a high priest, you are going the course of indemnity as a representative of the nation. You should have this kind of heart. (40:84)

As the husband of a wife who has been mobilized to the front line, and as a parent leading your children, what should you do now? You have to unite wholeheartedly with the central family while you are leading the nation. Otherwise, you cannot fulfill the mission of high priest. (40:186)

What is the main problem for the wife, who works on the front line? Do you love your husband more, or God's Will? Do you love your husband more, or your central figure? Do you love your children more, or your central figure? The Blessed wives did not go to the front line centering on their husbands. They went out centering on Father. On your own, you would never think to do this. At home, you obey your husband and take care of your children, and your thoughts are divided. Can the husband think to go to the front line? He also cannot. (40:195)

The husband whose wife is mobilized has a desire to see her. I will give you permission to visit, but you have to first visit two outside families. Then you can visit her. Do you understand? You first visit one place and then a second place, and then the third visit can be to her. You should do it like this. Why? Because you must follow the pattern of the formation, growth, and completion stages. One of the two outside families you visit can be near your wife's place.

The husband has to educate his sons and daughters, saying, "Your mother is the only mother in the world. She went out for a holy purpose. I will follow your mother's way, and you have to follow the way your parents go." The husband should educate his children in this way with tears. "Your mother goes a suffering course for the sake of the nation and world. On this cold winter night, your mother might be lying in a cold room. We have to feel sorry that we have a warm room and bed. She is doing her job in order to give us life and to pioneer the way we should go. I will do my best for your sake. There is no mother like yours in the world." This is the way the husband should educate his children. "Next time, I have to go this way," he should explain, "and when you grow up, you also have to follow your mother's way." Centering on the mother, the father and son, and the father and daughter, have a tearful heartistic connection. Then this family can inherit the mother's tradition. (38:292)